🌿 For Women Starting Over After “Gray” Divorce
You didn’t choose this unraveling at this time in your life. But now that it’s here — after the lies, the silence, the betrayal, the years of losing yourself — you’re left wondering:
Who am I now? Who am I really? And where is God in all this wreckage?
Let’s be clear:
This is not just a “life transition.”
This is a holy upheaval.
And you don’t have to navigate it alone.
🌿 A Sacred Space to Reclaim What’s Been Lost
I offer 1:1 spiritual direction and coaching for women over 50 who are crawling out from the ruins of a long-term marriage — especially those marked by abuse, emotional neglect, infidelity and the soul-numbing loss of self.
You may feel unmoored, exhausted, numb. You may not trust yourself — or God — anymore.
That’s okay.
That’s exactly where we begin.
✨ What is Spiritual Direction?
Spiritual direction is not therapy. It’s not advice. And it’s definitely not “just pray harder” platitudes.
It’s a safe, sacred, confidential space where we slow down and listen — together — for the voice of the Spirit in your story.
As a trained spiritual director and spiritual formation coach, I companion you with empathy, deep listening, and hard-won wisdom as you:
- Name and grieve what’s been lost — especially the pieces of you
- Unravel toxic patterns of faith, shame, and identity
- Reclaim your voice, your agency, and your belovedness and beauty in Christ
- Learn to listen for God’s voice again (and trust your own)
- Root your healing in embodied, sacred practices that actually fit your real life
We’ll make space for tears, questions, holy anger, and yes — the slow, sacred work of becoming whole again.
✨ Who It’s For
This is for you if:
- You’re divorced (recently or years ago) and still rebuilding from the rubble
- You’ve lost yourself in “the marriage” — and want to find you again
- You’ve endured spiritual or emotional abuse, and you’re done pretending
- You’re questioning what you were taught about God, marriage, and your role as a woman
- You’re ready (or just barely willing) to start listening for what healing and hope might look like now
You don’t need to show up “put together.” You just need to show up.
🌺 What Our Sessions Look Like
Each session is 60 minutes via Zoom or phone. You can come with your messy heart and honest questions — I’ll bring the spaciousness, the sacred listening, and the Spirit-led guidance.
We may weave in:
- Prayer or silence
- Scripture or sacred texts (no weaponizing, promise)
- Creative, imaginative or somatic practices
- Journaling, reflection, or coaching
- A little laughter, a lot of grace
- Healthy support and challenge
This is your space to be seen, known, and slowly restored.
🌸 Ready to Begin Again?
If your soul is whispering “There’s got to be more,” — you’re right.
There is more.
More healing. More hope. More life.
Let’s walk there together.
Schedule a Discovery Call to see if spiritual formation coaching is the right next step for you.
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